After year’s of working personally 1-on-1 with hundreds of students worldwide, I know most guys don’t turn her on.
Most guys have conversations that are very platonic and friendly. They try to make her feel comfortable. They try to make her laugh so she will like them.
They don’t say anything that may upset her. They agree with just about everything she says because if they disagreed with her, she may not like them.
They hide their sexual feelings and intentions because “what if she doesn’t feel the same way?”
In your mind, all you want to do is please her and get her in bed. You don’t want to mess up your chances so you play it safe…
Well it ends up being a very friendly conversation. That’s it. And what happens with a friendly conversation.
She does not logically say, “Okay this guy has made me laugh twice, he teased me once, he makes this much money, he has x number of facebook friends… okay I’ll sleep with him.”
She does NOT control the fact that some men – flood her body with knee buckling waves of attraction and desire while some guys do nothing for her.
The problem with sexual attraction is that it is a feeling. You can’t tell her to feel sexual attracted to you. You can’t tell her to be aroused or turned on.
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